Mom always told me to never
engage in a battle of wits with the unarmed.
In a recent post of mine some may
have seen, Flag of Hatred
- I commented on the confederate flag and the racist attitudes it is most often
associated with. I chose to not only
write about it, but to do so in the brash, in-your-face manner which racists so
frequently themselves like to employ. A
sort of social experiment which was inspired by watching news interviews with
"typical" down home good ole boys from the deep south explaining how
they aren't racists, but rather are just very proud of southern heritage,
values and independence.
I was aware going in, that no
matter what I said or how I said it, I was in for some
crisp feedback, because the first thing racists do when confronted with the
ugliness of their hate is to attempt to change the focus away from that by any
means possible. The easy thing would
have just been to keep my mouth shut (as some suggested) to avoid all the nastiness
which was sure to follow, but you see; that
is exactly what they want!
A primary tactic of distraction
employed by racists is the same tactic used successfully by infants and
children. Make enough unpleasant noise
long enough and you'll get your way; and if you make it a lifestyle, pretty
soon everyone will avoid you like they do rattlesnakes. Tends to work quite well, if you don't mind
being a social pariah.
The first and loudest voice of
dissent and damnation came from a self
described 'redneck' who goes by buelaman
and hosts a website he calls B'mans
Revolt somewhere in the south evidently.
First met this fellow a couple years back when he made a passably decent
little video based on one of my posts he liked.
He asked if he could, I said yes, and was happy with the result. Despite trying to keep in touch, I haven't
heard anything at all from buelaman since
that time; until I posted Flag of Hatred
the other day. As I said, his was the
first response to the post, and it bothered me a bit that I'd offended him, so
I replied by email that insulting him personally wasn't my intent and
apologized for offending him.
Evidently, that wasn't good enough.
Within half an hour the blog post
comments began flooding in as they never have before, and I mean there were
actually 65 comments posted in the first few hours after the post was published
on rense.com. That many mostly negative comments so quickly
means that someone got on the phone/email &
twitter to rally his troops against me. Their
tactic is simple and so very easy; they bomb you with vile, disgusting and
highly abusive comments knowing that if you moderate out all the filth they can
accuse you of censorship, and if you post any of the comments they get to be
obnoxious and drive readers from your blogsite.
Because I sought a dialogue on the issue of the cornerstone speech, to see if anyone would actually engage on
that issue, (the central point to the post in question)...I published some of
the less offensive comments, and flushed the blatantly abusive.
It is worth noting at this point
that on his own web site, buelaman requests
that those commenting please keep their comments on topic - too bad he doesn't practice
what he preaches, because the first thing the next morning, at the very top of
a whole new raft of hateful, abusive comments, was buelaman himself strutting like a rooster, telling me to shut up
because so many negative comments means I'm wrong. Now, just how did he know
how many comments I'd received ? He also
said he took down the video he did from my post, but would put it back up once things between us were resolved!!
Told him I'd rather he delete the video forever than see him use it as some kind of hostage to the discussion going
his way. You see, the mentality average folks are up against here?
Nowhere in all those
"comments" was there even a single person who wasn't afraid to discuss the cornerstone speech. Not
a one! How about that. Finally this morning, a reader from England
not only addressed the speech in question, he even offered some insight I
hadn't thought of, so thanks to Steven for that! The point here is simple; haters never want
to address the real issues, I think they just prefer to be left alone to stew
in their own bigoted juices.
UPDATE:
The trouble is here, that society simply cannot afford that kind of silence any more, not if we want even the smallest shot at evolving beyond pride and prejudice. For over a century we have just shut up and let the rebels have their little pity party of private hatred and intolerance. Just now, in a moment of clarity in the wake of the
Let's be very clear here. The confederacy was never recognized as a sovereign
state, not by a single world government at the time. It was an illegitimate political entity which
committed acts of treason against America ,
and started a war costing over 600,000 lives in total. All because they refused to give up the
practice of slavery. That is the
heritage these haters say they are so proud of.
They were wrong, they LOST the war they began, yet
somehow we're supposed to allow them to continue intimidating all of us with
their hate banner. Ask any reasonable
person what first comes to mind when they see the rebel flag, and see what they
say! Sore losers who would just as soon kill you!
These days it isn't enough to just speak truth to power, we
must also speak truth to ignorance, bigotry and racism; because, clearly,
keeping our silence hasn't worked out so well now has it? In his address at the funeral of pastor/senator
Clementa Pinckney this day, President
Obama even said that "the confederate flag is a symbol of systemic
oppression," and warned that we should not fall back into
silence over this issue, the issue of racism and hatred perpetuated by a symbol
on a flag.
Google racist
symbols and guess what shows up together on the first row of results; the
confederate flag and the Nazi swastika!
How about that??
The KKK was a group of southern racist haters; who felt the
need to hide behind bed sheets despite their "superiority" to the
negro - what were they afraid of, or ashamed of?? No different from today where our group of
haters likes to hide behind false respectability, using words like heritage & honor. How come all the haters only post as anonymous? Because that
is the modern equivalent to the klansman's bed sheet.
False equivalency and revisionist history are the haters favorite
tactics to divert and distract attention away from the issue of their bigoted,
prejudiced minds. When out maneuvered by
logic and truth; they quickly accuse opponents of being agents of the system,
deluded, or just simple minded. Those
unwilling to acknowledge much less discuss the
cornerstone speech are oh, so quick to point at Old Glory saying look at all the oppression of minorities that flag has flown over, and that may
well be, however, we'll discuss that flag when it gets its own post, NOW
we are, as a nation, discussing the confederate
flag, and all it represents. How about
we all
stay on topic here, eh? Quit trying to
change the subject!
As even a casual reader of this blog is aware, I
am anything but a fan of the American government or its bloody history of
injustice to minority people. To accuse me
of being a shill for the establishment just smacks of desperation by those who
seek to silence any voice but their own. The haters have become experts at
playing this evasive little mind game where no answer given is ever good
enough, and like slippery eels they avoid actually addressing the salient
points, but prefer to take personal cheap shots at the author, hoping if they
piss him off, it will divert focus from the main point. This then is the action of cowards who want all the rights in the
world but are willing to respect nobody in return.
How come the haters can't just man up and own their
hate??
For over a hundred years racist southerners have shoved the
confederate battle flag in everyone's face in their arrogant attempt to feel
superior, and intimidate their enemies but when someone shoves the truth
in THEIR face, oh, they sure don't
like it much. Not at all. Like most cowards, they can dish it out but
they cannot take it.
"I'm not a racist" they cry,
then in the next breath admit to embracing the confederate flag for what it
"really means". You can't have
it both ways, but then that's exactly what the haters want. They want the right to do whatever they
desire and then denounce any opposing opinion with distortions of history and
utter lies, again,
What are they afraid
of ??
If one is not a racist, but yet loves their southern
heritage so much, why not fly the original confederate flag,
instead of the rebel battle flag? How
about that? But we don't see the
original flag much, perhaps because it doesn't deliver the desired message to
those who see it.
Intolerance is the watchword for these racists, and you see
it the minute you say something they don't like; they verbally attack with
clever tactics designed to distract and obfuscate from the central issue. They know that their inner hatreds are wrong
and ugly in every way, and they defend their hatreds the same way the do their
ignorance, with angry abusive rhetoric - it's all they know, it's all they want to know!
Minds as rigidly locked as the confederate flag at
the south Carolina state
capitol.
Sometimes ya have to speak on the only level someone can
understand. Seeing the predominantly
abusive responses to Flag of Hatred
it was clear to me that those who felt offended are unwilling or unable to
engage in a rational, respectful discourse.
This is their primary tactic: to so overwhelm their opponents with vile
and abusive rhetoric that those with opposing views throw up their hands in
disgust and just give up. That, is the
problem, we just silently endure these haters rather than incur their vehement
wrath. Essentially the same way a child
gets it's way, by crying and wailing so loudly and long that the parents give
in. They do this because they know they
cannot prevail in any fact based discussion.
Just like bawling children who know nothing beyond self interest, these
southern racists must be taught that such behavior will no longer be rewarded, or tolerated.
Of course, some of these southern racists have long ago
found their way into the halls of power, you'll know them by their tantrums, like
some of the gems that have fallen from the mouth of supreme court judge Antonin Scalia recently. By god, I
thought the man's head was gonna explode today when same sex marriage was made
the law of the land.
See how fast the haters are losing ground!! They must be really stewing in their juices by now.
As I've said, these racists are, at their core; cowards; by way of example I have only to point out that since the Charleston shootings there have been a total of seven black churches burned. They can't all be bad wiring and lightning. Who runs around under the cover of darkness and sets fire to churches? The same bunch that ran around in bed sheets hanging black people - cowards, that's who!
As I've said, these racists are, at their core; cowards; by way of example I have only to point out that since the Charleston shootings there have been a total of seven black churches burned. They can't all be bad wiring and lightning. Who runs around under the cover of darkness and sets fire to churches? The same bunch that ran around in bed sheets hanging black people - cowards, that's who!
The tide is turning people; and this moment right now might just be the best time in the world to
roll bigotry and intolerance back a couple hundred years, hell its where they
like it best, they'll be fine there without us.
Like that self absorbed child, southern haters must be taught where the boundaries
are, and what lines they are not allowed to cross.
At the end of the day it's refreshing to know that everyone
out there isn't the same as these bigots and haters. They've always been a minority, and they act
like it. Here, now in this national
waking moment of recognition all of us non-haters need to stand up, and just
say no more! Silence will only embolden
those who hate; I doubt we'll ever get rid of that gene, but we can try, and
till then we have to stand up to racists and haters, every time, and tell them
their day is done. Tell them they are
free to think and feel however they want, but decent, moral society will no
longer give you a pass on public displays of hatred. Take your flag and go back home, we're
already full up with crazy here!
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ill tell u an ironic story. my old boss, who is black and is married to a white man, traveled with her hubby to seattle. her father in law died and her mother in law is living in the house alone with alzheimers. he is the only child. she said when she saw her mother in law her mother in law was really happy to see her. which is kind of ironic as both her mother in law and father in law were both very opposed to them getting married and really treated her poorly. and she is one of the sweetest people i know and a real stand up person vs some of the sell out managers i have worked for ha ha. so maybe my friend the answer to all of this hate is for us to come up with some kind of vaccine, a shot that will cause us to forget that we dont like each other ha ha . now wouldnt that be a trip. hey a fellow can dream. may we all find the good in one another and forget why we shoudlnt like one another because one thing i have discovered in life is that its a lot more interesting when it includes all kinds of different people in it from varied backgrounds. just my thoughts my friend peace to u
ReplyDeleteOr maybe we'll become like the Hatfields & McCoys...and forget the reasons we were fighting...
ReplyDeleteI see it like this, cut us, don't we all bleed red?!
We're all in this together, and none of us are getting out alive
There are so many much better things we could all be doing.
As someone recently pointed out to me;
There was a horrendous line of applicants to incarnate on Earth at this time,
We got the best seats in the house for the big show
and in case nobody has noticed yet, the curtain just went up...
It's Showtime!
This is how our common language gets all twisted up. Somewhere we all receive enough training that we accept very illogical conversations, and the media tends to lead in that. To say one is not racist while and then turn to say that some people are just not people is the best example of "twisted".
ReplyDeletePeople inherit this prejudice, it does not come natural. five generations of hate passed to one child and then the next. When people of mixed races work together, they tend to learn that they are not so different and a harmony ensues. In the south, few travel or are exposed to races other then their second cousins so fear can be taught to all. It is sad to see that people spend their entire life in fear and hate of some people they never had to work beside. And it goes all ways, for race-fears happen anywhere on this planet.
This is why there will be a massive shift within the DNA of humanity,.. so the authentic software will get to stay... which we see in children playing with all children of any race and laughing and harmonizing when needed... easily.
You go this one, thanks!
You bring up an excellent point which I failed to mention in the post, one which is perhaps very central to this entire issue. Children live what they learn, and if that is a solid wall of racism, bigotry & intolerance from everyone in their environment, that is what they believe and project.
DeleteI see no way to prevent this cycle from continuing as it always has, unless as you also point out - maybe we learn from our color-blind children. Hatred and racism can be un-learned. I grew up in a fairly bigoted family and community - their beliefs never washed with me, because their bigotry wasn't based on any facts...so it didn't 'stick' on me.
What I find very interesting is that as the powers that be are trying to ignite a race war, they didn't expect it to be a white on white kind of thing with all this flag backlash.
"All I am saying, is give peace a chance" ~ John Lennon
There may be some glint of truth in your view, it is a distinct possibility; however in the case of the two you mentioned, we must remember the race they hate is ours...the human race.
ReplyDeleteJust to keep the focus.
Thanks~